Aim for the Day

i would like to whine and whine and whine. 

about how tired i am and how this pelvic pain is bothering me and so on.

but let it be just that 2 sentences above. 

i woke up with a heavy feeling (as usual) but new target in mind.

to grab myself a burger for lunch today.

that is my aim for the day.

i am distracting my mind from the constantly playing question, which is;

when are u coming out baby?

it's 37 weeks and u know what, your kakak came out during this time of pregnancy. 

how i wish my tummy is as clear as this. pffft. this is all make up people!

ok, so let's forget about this. 

or i'll get frustrated waiting for the baby to come but she doesnt.

owh, have i told u it'll be a she?

yes, insyaallah we are expecting another girl in the house.

 

truthfully, i really dont mind. having girls really brings me joy.

i love their manja-ness and politeness and girliness.

and how we can share cooking, baking, combing hair, putting on hair clips, dancing and singing. 

the dancing and singing part is the best. she likes to hold our hands (especially her ayah's hand) and starts to twirl. oh such a joy. 

and we get to play dress up. well,  not really dress up. but she does have a certain taste in clothing if i let her choose. and she likes to choose her ayah's baju too. somehow it matches. 

Ayra will be a loving sister. i know she will. she has such a pure heart.

having girls is not a tougher job than having boys.

nowadays, both genders are equally challenging to raise.

it is up to us how we see the blessing that Allah has bestowed upon us.

both have their own challenges that need special attention to. 

"Whoever takes care of two girls until they reach adulthood - he and I will come (together) on the Day of Resurrection - and he interlaced his fingers (meaning in Paradise)." 

(Reported by Muslim)

 

"Whoever has three daughters or sisters, or two daughters of two sisters, and lives along with them in a good manner, and has patience with them, and fears Allah with regard to them will enter Paradise." (Reported by Abu Dawud, Al-Tirmidhee and others)

“He who is involved (in the responsibility) of (nurturing) daughters and is generous to them, will have them as a fortification for himself against the Hellfire.” (Al-Bukhaari & Muslim)

source: islamweb

ok, now back to the food.

i am aiming for a black pepper burger today.

i want the Prosperity Burger by McD.

but i have succesfully detoxified my body from McD product for almost 2 years.

due to Palestine issues.

so i dont want to break my stand just because im craving for it.

so where shall i get the best Black Pepper burger today?